I Trust You – with a Car or a Gun
By Jeff Knox
(December 31, 2015) Over the Christmas weekend my wife and I spent some time on the road traveling to visit family and friends. As usual, I was driving about 5 miles per hour over the posted speed limit of 65, and I assume the cars coming from the other direction were doing about the same, which reminded me of an analogy I have often used when talking about trust, responsible behavior, and the different perceptions people have about given situations.
Two cars driving opposite directions on a two-lane road at 70 miles per hour are effectively approaching each other at 140 miles per hour. At speeds like that, bumpers, crush zones, airbags, and seat belts are not likely to be of much use. The only thing between you and that 17-year old in the ’95 Chevy Silverado coming at you at 140 miles per hour is a 3-inch wide stripe of yellow paint, yet most of us face this situation almost every day without much thought. So as Janet and I wound our way from Wickenberg toward Yarnell and Peeples Valley, I wondered how many of the occupants of the cars swooshing past us would have been uncomfortable standing in line behind me in the supermarket when they noticed the .45 on my hip. Most real Arizonans would hardly take notice, but we have a lot of refugees from places like California and New York who are easily shocked by such a sight. Nothing in my appearance or demeanor presents a threat to them, but they don’t trust me and are concerned simply because I have a gun. They have an irrational fear of guns – hoplophobia.

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